Ruger LCR. Get it in .357, at 17 ounces it disappears in your pants pocket but has enough weight to control those double taps. The sights are simple but i can hit a steel silhouette 3 times out of 5 with mine at 100 with any load I choose. That is with elbows rested on a truck bed and the little revolver clutched between my giant mits. I have big hands, palm a basketball big and the LCR is comfortable for me and my wife, she's 5'2 about 140lbs. (Don't tell her i said) Then only time i shoot the little rascal with both hands is when i'm betting people I can hit silhouettes at comical ranges. I have really liked this gun, i carry it as back up for my contender or lone eagle when I hunt, it travels the country in my front right pocket when I work. The only reason it isn't in my pocket right now is that I'm out of the country. LCR in .357 suits me better than anything else I've tried. S&W J frames are to expensive for a gun that will be confiscated if ever used deffensively, and they aren't anywhere near as smooth in the trigger pull. Typical i think smith's are smoother but certainly not in the pocket revolver game now that the LCR is out. Play with one. Seriously.