Boot,
I can't answer your queston as I have no experience with 80% of the rounds listed. However, Taffin has written complete books trying to address what your asking. You might spend a little money on a reloading manual if your really interested. You will be able to see velocity, energy, & bullet drop with various weight bullets out of each cartridge. You will need to look up the weight of gun you are concidering & use your load information to figure recoil. There are plenty of published articles that might help as well.