Yeah I found one from mildot that actually has that intensity thing you are talking about. On a 2 or 3, I could just barely see it, and it was VERY tiny. It was only $80, which makes me question its quality.

Any experience with this red dot?

Now that you mention the use of the point of the triangle on the reflex, I do seem to remember reading that somewhere else on this forum... Maybe I'll give that a go.