I am one that hates the Bisley but I have large hands and a large knuckle. It is also sensitive to hold and a 1/16" change in hold will move the POI.
I don't like the SBH and the square trigger guard either and I need Pachmeyer grips but I can shoot groups twice as tight as I can with a Bisley. Shift on the grip does little.
I will tell the truth here, give me one of each and I can not tell any difference in recoil between them. The hog leg might try to rise higher but the proper grip keeps it in check.
Those that believe in "roll" might feel better with the Bisley but a good grip stops "roll" with any grip.
Never make a decision based on what others like, only what works for you.
I bought one Bisley and sold it so fast I don't even remember it. I will say that it is really pretty.