It's not a bad thing.
It's human nature, or should should I say a genetic detriment to us men.
If a guy can't buy something and take it apart to improve it, it aint worth a hill of beans!
Luckily my friend is a gunsmith so he always bails me out!
I also know how you feel needing a 458 Win Mag. I felt the same way about a 416 Rigby.
I was so enamored with my reading that I just had to get one because no one around here had one.
Even now, I am the only one in my circle of friends who will shoot it, and yes it does need a muzzle brake.
107gr of IMR4831sc dictates that. It hurts a little less now though because I switched a classic multi-ported one for a big fish-gill type.
It is much more manageable, but you still have to hold on very tight!
Dan B is the only other handgunner friend who even wanted to shoot it, and he controlled it quite well.
Eveyone of my other friends decline the opportunity.
I imagine the 458 Win mag in a shorty Encore is something to behold. Good luck!