Well I can relate but the key is moderation and loading down to make aiming and squeezing the trigger more likely. I own a 500 S&W X-frame with a 6.5 inch barrel ported barrel. Not in the catalog anymore at S&W. A 460V 460 S&W magnum with a 5 inch muzzle brake equipped barrel. And a model 329PD with a quad ported by Mag-Na-Port 4.25 inch barrel. All can be a handful of grin inducing pleasure. But 500 JRH 440 grain hard cast loads at 950 fps, and 45 Colt Garrett Cartridges of Texas loads pushing a 360 grain hard cast gas check bullet at 1300 fps, and 310 grain 44 magnum loads from Garrett Cartridges of Texas especially for 4 inch barreled 44 magnum revolvers at 1000 fps put some fun back in the shooting.